Friday, September 21, 2012

Your Truth

Once upon a time, there lived six blind men in a village.
One day the villagers told them, “Hey, there is an elephant in the village today.”

They had no idea what an elephant is. They decided,
“Even though we would not be able to see it, let us go and feel it anyway.”
All of them went where the elephant was. Everyone of them touched the elephant.

“Hey, the elephant is a pillar,” said the 1st man who touched its leg.

“Oh, no! it is like a rope,” said the 2nd man who touched the tail.

“Oh, no! it is like a thick branch of a tree,” said the 3rd man who touched the trunk.

“It is like a big hand fan” said the 4th man who touched the ear of the elephant.

“It is like a huge wall,” said the 5th man who touched the belly of the elephant.

“It is like a solid pipe,” Said the 6th man who touched the tusk of the elephant.

They began to argue about the elephant and everyone of them insisted that he was right. 
It looked like they were getting agitated. A wise man was passing by and he saw this. 
He stopped and asked them, “What is the matter?” 
They said, “We cannot agree to what the elephant is like.”
Each one of them told what he thought the elephant was like. 
The wise man calmly explained to them, 
“All of you are right. 
The reason every one of you is telling it differently because 
each one of you touched the different part of the elephant. 
So, actually the elephant has all those features what you all said.”

“Oh!” everyone said. There was no more fight. They felt happy that they were all right.

The moral of the story is that there may be some truth to what someone says. 
Sometimes we can see that truth and sometimes not because 
they may have a different perspective with which we may not agree. S
o, rather than arguing like the blind men, we should say, 
“Maybe you have your reasons.” This way we don’t get in arguments. 
Truth can be stated in different ways. 
This story teaches us to be tolerant towards others for their viewpoints. 
This allows us to live in harmony with the people of different thinking.

Thursday, September 20, 2012

Do You Listen To Your Room?




  • Listen to your room

    In a room

    A Roof says ... Aim High
    A Fan says ... Be Cool
    A Clock says ... Every Minute Counts
    A Mirror says ... Reflect Before You Act
    A Window says ... See The World
    A Calendar said ... Be Up To Date
    A Door says ... Push Hard To Achieve Your Goal
    A Light says ... Shine your light with others. 



    jimdenise.com

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Receive – Realize – Release


Receive – Realize – Release -
When you are the Receiver of negativity
Realize it is not about you.
Then Release it.
Sounds too simple?
It really is that simple, not the same as easy.
There is no statute of limitation,
you can release it any time and as many times as needed.
Negative people and negative situations can propel us forward,
when we keep the lesson and release the personal attachment.

Your future is not your past ...
unless you choose it to be...

Jimdenise.com

Monday, September 17, 2012

Life Is Like A Game of Boomerangs!


Often you get answers to questions
you did not ask out loud!

Do you know...
that life is a game of boomerangs. 
Our thoughts, deeds and words return to us 
sooner or later with astounding accuracy.
Florence Scovel Shinn said that, and she was right. 
So before you think, do, or say anything -- 
imagine what it would be like to receive what you are sending.
Then, go one step further. 
Decide ahead of time what
you would like to receive...and then send it. 
Quite deliberately. 
That is, give to, or cause in the life of,
another what you would like to now experience.
Then...watch the magic.


We are Sending Good Out!!!

Friday, September 14, 2012

Time


How do you do something... You do not want to do?
The same way you do things you do want to do...
Give it all you got!!! Give it your best!!!

Ever notice when you do something you like 
and are having FUN time just flies by quickly
Yet...
When you are doing something you do not like
times passing so... s-l-o-w-l-y ?

A story my father shared with me as a child!

There once was a man who;
Got a job doing what he thought was boring...
Married someone he did not even like...
Drove a car he did not like at all...
Listened to music he felt was irritating... 
Ate only food he dis-liked greatly!

Asking why did he choose to do all these things?

Answer... 
By choosing to do thing he did not like
time seemed to go by s-lo-w-l-y...
this would make his life seem longer! 

Wow...

Time is the only thing we all have exactly the same ...
24 hours in a day.

The time it takes to do things we like or do not like
is the exactly the same !
It is how we choose to feel about it that makes the difference.


jimdenise.com
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Thursday, September 13, 2012

Pollyanna Rocks!

Always finding the 'brighter" side in any situation is proof enough that it does in deed exists!

I would rather trust and be wrong than not trust and be wrong!




We would demonstrate to everyone that we are cheerful, that we are optimistic,
that we are happy, that we are looking for the best-feeling thought that we can find —
and that we've practiced it so much that we often find it.
And then, as people say to you, in accusing tones,
"Oh, you are a Pollyanna," announce to them, "Pollyanna lived a very happy life."
--- Abraham
abrahamhicks.com

Jimdenise.com
  
An ah-ha! moment for me...

Repeatedly being reminded... 

"That I made a mistake"

By others who had done what I was then doing...

Yes... it was at a job!

I listen to them... after all they did this before.

Then slowly  it came through me...

"I AM not them"

"I AM me"

Ever heard ...

'If you want different results... do things different?'

When I became Thankful...for those mistakes
and to others who were trying to push/pull me into a mold...
A mold that I call...'in the box' 
No matter how big the box is... it limits how far one can go
taking control of imagination and possibilities. 

What was the desired end results I wanted.
Recognition, promotions, raises, approval from others felt good...
yet it did not fuel me...
feeling I did my best, and did more than before that felt great!
That was what charged me!

It was being me, 
I love connecting with others...
I love learning...
I love teaching...

A metaphor ...
I was given all the ingredients to make a chocolate cake
I was given all the tools I would need, measuring cups, spoons,
mixer, pans, oven everything to make a chocolate cake, 
even the proven results... a beautiful chocolate cake!

Everything except the recipe!

This was an excuse for me to keep doing the same thing the same way.

That was a stepping stone...

Thinking... How did a recipe even become a recipe?

Through mistakes...and keep on keepin on!

When you make mistakes...

Make sure you don't miss the message ...looking for the mistake!